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Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Effective Creative Visualization

The hardest part about doing a thing,getting a thing,or becoming some “thing” – whether it is something that we need or something we desire (want) is belief.
For instance,we may need to get a new job because we need to make more money,or we may desire a new job because there are things about our current position we don’t like.Maybe we consider it boring and want something more challenging,more stimulating.
Of all the “New Age” techniques for manifesting our goals (making them “real”),creative visualization is perhaps the best known,unfortunately,it is perhaps also the most misunderstood.
Misunderstanding the how and why visualization works often results in failure.It is easy to become disillusioned about the power of visualization when no matter how often or hard we concentrate on visualizing,the outcome we desire just doesn’t happen.
Many Americans first became aware of “visualization” as a technique when the Russians used the technique as central to training Olympic athletes,with great success.Since then,the idea of visualization as a tool to enable us to live a better life has become practically a mainstream assumption within American culture.
Visualize what we need(or want) and it will come.
And then it doesn't ! And all too often,rather than educate ourselves as to why it may not be working,we just give up and settle living lives in which we do not manifest our greatest potential(s).


Till this very day,most of the best athletes employ creative visualization as a central part of their training program.For those of us who like numbers,early Russian studies indicated that those who spent 25% of their time engaging in physical training and 75% of their time mentally training had more success than those who spent 100% of their time physically training ! In our everyday world,what that would look like to someone who wanted to improve their ability to,say,run a mile more quickly?With physical training of one hour a day 4 days a week would they have more success if they spent one of those hours visualizing running their mile more quickly?
However,it is important to note that the Russians had their athletes engage in a very disciplined program.The Russian criteria for this “mental rehearsal” included:



  • Very detailed visualizations
  • Visualization exercise(s) performed frequently and consistently
This means that while “daydreaming” may certainly be somewhat helpful when it comes to manifesting a goal or desire,following a consistent schedule and setting aside regularly scheduled times to practice creative visualization will most usually provide better result in most cases.
Creative visualization must be detailed
A common complaint of people wishing to employ creative visualization is that they can’t “see” or create a clear enough picture.They close their eyes and maybe all they see are colors,or even just a “blank screen.”They are having trouble visualizing.This is where detail comes into play.So far we’ve been concentrating on visualizing (“seeing”) as it relates to improving athletic performance;however, creative visualization is just as powerful technique for achieving any goal or desire.
For example,you have decided to pursue finding another job. You've set a scheduled time to visualize, say,right before getting out of bed in the morning and right before going to sleep at night(both great times to visualize).You close your eyes and start thinking that you want to get a picture of your new job and get nothing !The more you strain to “see”,the blanker your mental screen gets.Now is a great time to remember that you have five senses,not just one !!
If you can’t see your new job,can you hear it? Imagine a conversation you may have with a colleague or superior.A very detailed conversation where you are expressing yourself to others with extreme confidence and competence.Your listener,in turn,responds as you would wish them to in the most optimal circumstances you can imagine.
Can you smell your new job?Perhaps your desk is near the coffee maker.Now the conversation you have imagined has smell attached to it.Can you touch your new job?Maybe you can feel yourself standing by your desk with a cup of coffee in your hand having that successful conversation with your colleagues.
Now that you can hear and touch your visualization,you try to imagine you can see yourself at your new job,but darn,all you can see is the color red.Ask yourself,what is red about my new job?And you realize that it is the tie or sweater a colleague you are speaking with is wearing.Before you know it you can see, hear,and touch your new job exactly as you desire it to be !

Creative visualization must be practiced consistently

Remember that creative visualization is often referred to as a “mental rehearsal”.Those in theater, actors,directors,and technical staff have an intimate understanding of the importance of rehearsing  and they rehearse often.They don't leave rehearsing to chance,there is a formal schedule put into place.  At first rehearsals are scheduled quite frequently.In these first rehearsals performances are usually pretty choppy.People forget their lines,actors have not completely embraced their characters,props are missing,etc,but with frequent rehearsal,performances begin to improve.Eventually,this scheduled, consistent and frequent rehearsal results in performances where the actors forget that they are on stage and become the play.This is an excellent example of the power of creative visualization when it is performed in a scheduled, consistent, and frequent manner.

The role of belief in creative visualization

To be it, you must believe it.” This statement is true on many levels.
First,psychologists report the power of something they term “self fulfilling prophecy.”The basic premise is that whatever one believes about themselves or their circumstances,whether positive or negative  have a powerful impact on their behavior,thereby quite often causing this belief to become true.
For example,if a student believes they will flunk a test,it is likely that their study habits will be negatively impacted,reducing the amount of material they remember.In addition,the thought that they will flunk the test causes them to become anxious and this high level of anxiety negatively impacts their brain function.And the result?At the very least,if that student does not perform to their true potential on the test,it is quite possible that the student will actually flunk their test.
The theory of self fulfilling prophecies makes a lot of sense when you consider the strong relationship between an individual’s level of self confidence and the beliefs they have about themselves.If a person has no confidence in their ability to pass a test,it follows that they have no faith that engaging in behaviors that support passing the test will be effective.For example,they may not study as often or as long as they need to,or not take advantage of studying with a study group.
However,visualization techniques can change a negative self fulfilling prophecy into a positive self fulfilling prophecy.For instance,frequently,consistently and in a detailed manner visualizing one’s self actually taking the test successfully is very powerful.For one,the level of self confidence is improved.  Those who feel confident are not focused on perfection,they are focused on realizing their full potential. In this case,it is passing the test,not necessarily getting the highest grade in the glass.
An example of a specific visualization for passing a test is,as one is studying,to visualize placing information into a file folder and placing that file folder in a file drawer.When taking the test and “stumped” for an answer,simply close your eyes,visualize the file drawer,open it,and pull out the folder with the correct answer.This sounds silly,but there is science behind it.This visualization helps to create new neural pathways and,when the visualization is used with you trying to come up with the right answer or information needed to be able to solve a problem,the pathways to that specific information needed are engaged.In other words, a “short cut” to the information needed to pass the test is created in the brain.
The Role of Quantum Physics and Visualization
Perhaps the most powerful of visualization techniques are those of quantum jumping.These techniques involve accessing one’s “twin” or doppelganger selves existing in an alternate universe (reality) who is already “doing the thing or getting the thing” we desire,our visualization practices to manifest it  in our lives.
Quantum physics demonstrate properties of matter (which are actually waves) to include the fact that the universe splits into alternate realities whenever one or more outcome is possible.For instance,this means if there is a you who believes they will have difficulty passing tests or getting the job they want,there is another you who takes tests successfully and snags positions they find meaningful, fulfilling, and lucrative.




source : http://www.quantumjumping.com by Burt Goldman




With love and passion,
Amreish Siman

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Managing Criticism

How does it feel when someone blames you?Usually,when someone blames you, you feel heavy, hurt or you become unhappy.You get hurt because you resist the blame.Outside you may not resist,but inside when you resist it hurts you.When someone blames you,you usually blame them back or put up a resistance inside yourself. 
A blame takes away some negative karma from you.If you understand this and don’t put up a resistance and feel happy about it, then your karma goes away.Outside you may resist, but inside if you don’t resist, and feel happy,“Oh, good, somebody is there to blame me and take some negative karma,”you will feel immediately lighter.The way to deal with blame is through patience and faith.Faith that truth will always triumph and things will get better. 
Whatever work you do,there will be someone to find fault.Keep working without losing your enthusiasm and spirit.A wise man by his very nature will keep doing good work.His attitude does not depend on someone’s praise or blame.To uplift your spirit and save your mind from blaming, you need to judge your company.Your company can pull you up or down. The company that drags you towards doubt, blame, complaints, anger, and desires is bad company. The company that pulls you up towards joy,enthusiasm,service,love,trust and is good.An ignorant person says, “Don’t blame me because it hurts me.” An enlightened one says “Don’t blame me because it might hurt you.” This is a beautiful point.Someone warns you not to blame them because it will hurt them and they will do something harmful to you out of revenge.On the other hand, an enlightened one asks not to blame because of compassion.Demand and blame destroy relationships.So,you should know how to praise others and uplift a situation instead of blaming or finding fault. Uplifting the other should be your commitment.Then you are the right person for anybody. Everybody will love you when you don’t hurt them intentionally. 
    You are not here to blame or criticise.Criticism can come from two kinds of people.When they are narrow-minded, then they criticize out of their ignorance or they really want to bring something good in you.If their criticism is coming from a space of improving you,thank them for their compassion.You can improve since their criticism makes 
you realise your mistake. If it is coming from a space of putting you down, be compassionate and just laugh at them. In either case, you do not have to worry about criticism. 
The great Indian Saint Kabir Das(right) has said that keep someone who criticises you close by, that will keep your house, your mind clean,without the need of soap and water. If everybody around keeps praising you, they may not show you your shortcomings. The people who criticize are authentic since they are pouring out their heart. You need to be able to give and take constructive criticism. An educated person will neither shy away from criticism nor will he shun the critique. The measure of your maturity depends on how you handle criticism. Ability to take criticism is a measure of one’s inner strength. 


source : The Art of Living by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

With love and passion,
Amreish Siman